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The Discipline of Finishing: Conor Neill at TEDxUniversidaddeNavarra

October 31, 2019


Translator: Rahul MS
Reviewer: Alina Siluyanova Who would you bet on? Imagine you had the 200 people
you know best in the world sat in this room and I gave you this deal: you come, today, come up here to me, you give me a 1,000 Euros
and you give me a name, and for the rest of that person’s life I will pay you 10%
of everything they make, every month, month after month,
month after month. Ten percent. Who would you choose? Imagine that; here in the room, if you look around the faces
you see in this room – some good faces
to bet on in this room – but if you put the 200 people
you know best from school, from university,
through family connections, who of all the people you know, would be the one person that you would put on that paper
and bring to me? Who would you bet on? I was asked this question 7 years ago. The man in the picture is Warren Buffett. Warren Buffett at time
is the richest man in the world. Warren Buffett doesn’t invent things; Warren Buffett doesn’t sell things; Warren Buffett doesn’t manage a company. Warren Buffet takes
one decision every day: Would I bet on this person? And the results would seem
that he does this quite well. But 7 years ago, when he asked
this question to a 150 MBAs, in my mind, 3 or 4 faces came to my mind. Three or four faces. And I hope as you’re thinking
about this now – who would you bet on? –
some faces come to your mind. Some faces come to mind:
people, that you know, that if you had this bet to make,
you choose them. So, let’s work a little bit on this. If we’re going to do this properly,
we should put together a process. The question: What criteria would you use
in making this decision? What criteria is your mind already using when it puts up
a couple of faces in your mind’s eye? What are you looking for
when you see in someone the capacity to have a massive impact in the world? I’m assuming you want to do this bet well, because if you do it well, you can use that money
for a lot of good causes. What criteria would you use? Let’s go through some ideas. One idea: let’s get
the 200 people present in the room to bring their grades
from school and university, and we put them in order
from the best to the worst grade, and we choose number one. Good idea? The really scary thing
is if I asked a group of twelve-year-olds, they would laugh at the idea. Twelve-year-olds already see
the grades in school is not the criteria. What are the criteria we’re using? How about best friends? Patchi, I’ll choose you if you choose me. Best friends! (Laughter) Wonderful for friendship
but a very dumb way to take this decision. What criteria would you use? What criteria
is your mind already using when it starts to put
some ideas in your mind? Who would you bet on? So, if grades from school isn’t it, best friend isn’t it, what would you use? Now, Warren Buffett
takes this decision every day, and Warren Buffett has 3 criteria. But before I get into
the 3 criteria of Warren Buffett, I want to move to the world
of psychology – I studied psychology – and to this day,
from the beginning of psychology, there’s one test
that above any other tests in life predicts future success on every measure: wealth, quality of relationships,
grades in school, length of relationships, happiness measured on every scale
whether qualitative or quantitative. And the test
is called the Marshmallow Test. This here is a marshmallow. The marshmallow test can be conducted
on children 3-4 years old. The psychologist brings
the child into the room and says, “This is yours.
This is yours to eat. I need to leave the room
for a couple of minutes. When I come back,
if it’s still there, you’ll get two.” And the psychologist leaves the room. And the kid looks at the marshmallow. It’s his marshmallow! You can do anything you want to it. You can use it in any way you want. So, 50% eat the marshmallow, 50%t don’t eat the marshmallow. And the 50% that don’t eat the marshmallow go on to lead lives that are qualitatively
and quantitatively better than the kids’
that do eat the marshmallow. But you can go
and look at this on Youtube. You can go and see this experiment being carried out. And what is most illustrative is what the children do
that don’t eat the marshmallow. The kids that eat the marshmallow, do something similar: they stare at the marshmallow, they look at it. The kids that don’t eat the marshmallow – and you can imagine
3-year-olds, 4-year-olds; they are kind of obvious – the kids that don’t eat the marshmallow,
they put their head in their hands, they get up and they stare at the wall, they look at their shoes. Because at the age of 3, they’ve already realized how little power
they have over themselves, over their own nature. And the lesson: the diet fails in the supermarket, not at home. If I go to the supermarket
and I buy a chocolate, and that chocolate gets to my house, my willpower
might get me through one day, it might get me
through the end of the week, it might get me
to the end of the month, I might last a year, but one day
something bad will happen: I’ll come home tired, my willpower will not be there, and I will eat that chocolate. The marshmallow test – the most powerful tool, onto 3 and 4 year-old children to determine the quality of their lives, the rest of their life. Now, marshmallows
don’t work on grown adults, so I wouldn’t recommend
we use the marshmallow test to make your decision
of who you’d bet on. Let’s go back to Warren Buffett and his 3 criteria, the 3 criteria of Warren Buffett. And Warren Buffett
makes this decision pretty damn well: 60 billion dollars
of net worth through deciding, “Would I bet on this person or not?”. And if you look
at the structure of a lot of his deals, he takes 10% of all
the future income of this person, of this team, of this company. And he has 3 criteria. The second criteria of Warren Buffett: Energy. Energy is health and a bias to action. Healthy people,
people who don’t get ill often, people who, when they get a cold,
they’re back to work tomorrow because they recover quick,
they sleep well. Bias to action: people who have a tendency
to take action over thinking about action. Energy is about
vitality and a bias to action. The third criteria of Warren Buffett: Intelligence. But not chess intelligence, not business school intelligence, not sitting in a room for 4 years
designing a strategy intelligence. He’s talking about adaptive intelligence. When you’re running down the street and a lamppost is coming towards you, adaptive intelligence
is the intelligence to see the pattern, see the lamppost coming
and change your course just enough that instead of taking it in the forehead you take the blow in the shoulder
and you keep moving. So, number two: Energy. Number three: Intelligence. But without number one, Warren Buffett and I
would rather you were dumb and lazy. Without number one
you’ll be a danger to yourself. Without number one you’ll be
a danger to your family and to society. Number one, Warren Buffet’s number one criteria. Number two is Energy, number three – Intelligence. But without this
those two are dangerous. Number one is Integrity. But integrity is that you say “no”
to most things. Integrity is really about an alignment between what your calendar
says you do and what you say you do. And if you say yes to most requests, if you can’t think of the time you’ve said
no in the last day, in the last week, your life has been divided
into thousands of little pieces and spread amongst
the priorities of other people. So, to live an integral life, to live a life true to your own values
means that you say no very often. Integrity, energy and intelligence. Do they seem like good criteria? Do they seem like good criteria? They worked for Warren Buffett. They seem like good criteria? Would you use these criteria in taking this decision, in choosing the one person to own 10% of all their future income? These three seem like good criteria to me. I’d use them, I often use them. They seem like good criteria. Now, there’s a person in this room that without paying me a 1,000 Euro, without doing anything different, without raising your hand, without moving, you own more than 10% – you own 100%. The person in this room
that you don’t have to pay money, you don’t have to go to me,
you don’t have to speak to anyone, and you will own 100% of everything,
month after month, after month. So, I very much hope that you each day work very hard to maximize integrity, maximize energy maximize intelligence. Because if you’d bet
on someone else for 10%, I damn well hope
you put everything you can into maximizing
these three in your own life. And given that we got a few minutes, how about some tools? I’ll leave you with some tools. One tool to maximize your intelligence, one tool to maximize your energy, one tool to maximize your integrity. And you can put these
into action right now. Intelligence: write stuff down. If you write down ideas you’ve had today, if you write down people you’ve met, describe things that are going on, 6 months from now you won’t be
the intelligence of one moment, you’ll be the accumulated intelligence
of 6 months of ideas, 6 months of things written down,
6 months of people’s quotes. When I was 14 years old
my biology teacher made us write down 5 minutes everyday, whatever we wanted. I remember day one, pen touched paper: “This is stupid. What are we doing?” Day two, again:
“This is stupid. What are we doing?” Day three: “He’s still doing this!” Day four: “Strange thing happened to me
on the way to school today…” Day five: “My brother said something
to me this morning…” I’ve written everyday of my life
since I was 14 years old. I know where I was
every day of my life since I was 14. I know what I was thinking, I know what it felt like,
I know who I was with. Start writing down your life. It’s the most valuable
resource you have – your own life. But so few people
take the time to document it. Write your life down,
describe the marshmallow. Energy: high-performance athletes. I’ve spent a lot of time
over the last 5 years interviewing the high-performance
athletes of Spain: Josef Ajram, Kilian Jornet, Miquel Suner. Josef Ajram: 10 times he’s competed
in the Marathon des Sables. Two marathons a day,
6 days across the Sahara. And Josef tells me, he finishes because he never thinks
about more than 15 minutes ahead. He runs for 15 minutes,
he stops, has a drink, another 15 minutes, another 15 minutes; his mind never goes beyond 15 minutes. He says, “Anybody
can run for 15 minutes.” He’s run the Marathon des Sables
because he’s never, ever, let his mind see more than the next 15 minutes. Miquel Suner swims open water, without a wetsuit, across the English Channel. No wetsuit! 42 thousand strokes
to leave the English coast over to France. 14-15 degree water;
the cold seeping in with every stroke. How does he do it? Because his mind is never further
than stroke, stroke, breath; stroke, stroke, breath. Hour after hour, swimming,
but he’s never allowing his mind to go anywhere beyond
“stroke, stroke, breath”. With the marshmallow: deal with one marshmallow at a time, one marshmallow at a time. What’s the next step? Do not let your mind jump forward and see the biggest thing. Alpine climbers see the next inch. Ranulph Fiennes – oldest man from Europe
to climb Everest, failed 3 times. On his last attempt his wife said to him: “Ranulph, climb it like the horses.” He looked at her:
“What do you mean like the horses?” She’s an animal trainer: “Because a horse
has no concept of the finish, a horse runs until it collapses. Climb Everest one step at a time. Ask yourself one question:
“Can I take one more step?” “Yes!” – take it. “No!” – pause. “Yes!” – take it, “Yes!” – take it.” And on one of those steps
he stood on the summit. Energy: deal with the next unit, one marshmallow at a time,
one marshmallow at a time. Integrity. Do you know how a child spells “love”? How does a child spell “love”? T-I-M-E. This world is full of good intention, but the way you see if an executive really is behind an initiative, you open their diary
and you count the hours. If you say your parents
are important to you, open the diary and show me the hours. The coherence between
a diary and your values is where integrity begins. And it’s kind of horrific
when you start to count, when you start to look and start
to become aware of where your time goes. So little of my time really goes to the things that I know
and I mean to do. So often I slip off into Facebook and what was supposed to be a minute,
is an hour, and then lunch comes. But those minutes – once you’ve started to get the minutes dedicate to the things that matter – And the trully
important thing to remember about the marshmallow test is that there’re hundreds, and thousands,
and millions of marshmallows in your life: hundreds of little decisions,
minute after minute, day after day that all sum up. And success in life is not
one massive good decision, not one marshmallow not eaten; and failure is not
one marshmallow eaten, or one poor decision. Failure – is repeated bad decisions; success – is repeated,
consistent, good habits. We so underestimate
what we can achieve in a year and so overestimate
what we can achieve in a day. A page a day –
and you have a book in a year. You’ll never write a book in one day. But this time, once you’ve started
to dedicate the time right – I had the privilege
of spending a day with Kilian Jornet, probably, Spain’s top athlete, ultraman. When I’d met him he’d just finished
running the Lake Tahoe Rim Run: 288 kilometers, and he ran it in 36 hours. What the hell goes through
a man’s mind as he runs for 36 hours? But when he runs, do you know what
the other competitors say about Killian? “He looks like he’s enjoying it.” The other runners are suffering
and they’re looking down – Killian is running
touching the leaves as he runs past, smelling the smell of the forest, feeling the feel
of the track beneath his feet. He runs for 36 hours
because he’s absolutely there, his mind is nowhere else but in the run, on the path,
in the forests, feeling completely alive. So, when you do get your diary
to match up to your values, getting your life 100% present and experiencing every little piece, is what took Killian to be number one
in the world in the hardest sport in the world. So the lesson, rule one for success – and I brought a few for all of you
to see if you can achieve it – the rule for success: when you have a marshmallow,
don’t stare at it. The diet doesn’t fail
because of weakness of will, the diet fails
because the chocolate is there. If you want to stop watching television, take the batteries out of the remote. If you want to do more exercise,
put your running shoes next to the door. It’s small, small changes. And when I come back, 5 years from now, and I ask, “Who did you bet on?”, the answer that I want:
[Spanish] myself. When I come back 10 years from now, the answer that I want is
[Spanish] myself. And 20 years from now,
I want you to have written stuff down; I want you to have dealt
with one step at a time; I want you to have made sure
your diary aligns completely, you say no to the things
don’t fit with what’s important to you. And 25 years,
when I come back here, I will look out on the most successful group of people, because they’ve lived their lives fully. Who would you bet on? (Applause)

74 Comments

  • Reply Anya Ray September 3, 2019 at 9:54 pm

    I got my brain washed with "Baffet" and "marshmallow"… all I will see from now will be Baffet and marshmallow

  • Reply Amit Singh September 5, 2019 at 7:53 am

    Extremely Inspiring. Journaling your life .Its so powerful. and just being present in the moment , focusing on the next 15 mins. I am achieving and accomplishing so much more in my life. Its one of the keys to living a Great life. Yes I am betting on Myself.

  • Reply gabriel leon September 5, 2019 at 7:11 pm

    can someone please explain to me what exactly his comment on
    how does a child spell love
    T-I-M-E ? meaning ?
    18:15

  • Reply Anna Chase September 7, 2019 at 4:04 pm

    This dude has a good message but his delivery is repetitive, slow, and I find it annoying.

  • Reply Jason W. Panetti September 9, 2019 at 4:37 pm

    BOOOORRRIIIIIIIINNGGG!

  • Reply Syl B September 9, 2019 at 11:11 pm

    he gets the marshmallow test wrong. It's not about avoiding bad habits. It's about delayed gratification. the children distract themselves in order to resist the attraction. He uses it like the marshmallow is the distraction from what is really important. The marshmallow is the goal! 😉

  • Reply Nikhil Chhalani September 10, 2019 at 8:57 pm

    Best of ted talks.

  • Reply Helen McAllister September 10, 2019 at 11:47 pm

    This is a superb talk- I chose my wonderful Best Friend, a Man of Integrity, who is my inspiration and who says "no" so that he can do the now task. Then it becomes a "yes". Thank you Conor Neill

  • Reply voxeledphoton September 11, 2019 at 4:33 pm

    7:06

  • Reply Yousuf alam September 11, 2019 at 11:12 pm

    Did anyone else initially read the title as "Discipline of FISHING" 😂

  • Reply DOC7ORT September 14, 2019 at 10:50 pm

    Life is a marshmallow eaten later

  • Reply Ed97 Magdy September 17, 2019 at 5:12 am

    I rarely ever take time to write youtube comments but I thought I should say..

    You are an absolute genius.

  • Reply Chiro Network September 18, 2019 at 7:16 pm

    Integrity, energy and intelligence

  • Reply Chiro Network September 18, 2019 at 9:07 pm

    Wow – start writing things down – powerful!

  • Reply Chiro Network September 18, 2019 at 9:07 pm

    15 minutes at a time

  • Reply Chiro Network September 18, 2019 at 9:07 pm

    How do you eat an elephant?

  • Reply Chiro Network September 18, 2019 at 9:08 pm

    One marshmallow at a time

  • Reply Chiro Network September 18, 2019 at 9:08 pm

    How does a child spell love? T-I-M-E

  • Reply imsoomx September 19, 2019 at 8:21 am

    7:52

  • Reply Darlene M. Scott September 20, 2019 at 11:47 am

    Great speech! I love the marshmallow test but the inherent flaw in the study is assuming the participants (even small children) like marshmallows. To replicate this with a child, you must pick their favorite food or candy (something that they value vs. something that the researchers have assigned value to). I binge watch ted talks .. love this

  • Reply Satish Kataria September 20, 2019 at 2:14 pm

    fantastic

  • Reply Rana Qasim September 21, 2019 at 1:16 am

    It took 22 years to understand what i am good at !

  • Reply Ivan Verdian September 21, 2019 at 3:49 am

    Tool to maximize intelligence = Writing down any idea or your own life / write diary.
    Tool to maximize energy = one step at a time
    Tool to maximize integrity = The coherence between diary with value

    Success is repeated consistent good habit.

  • Reply Freeman September 22, 2019 at 5:56 pm

    Drawing blood from a stone.

  • Reply 101beirut September 23, 2019 at 4:46 am

    Outstanding speech.

  • Reply Arias Beardslee September 24, 2019 at 12:02 pm

    I wanna eat marshmallow

  • Reply nikolus September 28, 2019 at 10:31 pm

    I'm love his great heart and his extremely well expressive human product. Lots oflove from me.

  • Reply Stephen Lakin September 29, 2019 at 6:58 pm

    its very interesting, I never thought about how you present things could lead to people believing in you and possibly investing in you

  • Reply Kilgore Trout October 1, 2019 at 4:05 am

    I dont know how, but it took him half an hour to tell two phrases worth of content.
    Was he being paid by the minute or something?

  • Reply Tim S October 1, 2019 at 1:40 pm

    Possibly the best thing I've ever seen on YouTube. Wow. Now…bed time

  • Reply craisins 86 October 1, 2019 at 11:36 pm

    I've been very successful – I went to Oxford and I'm a lawyer – but I'm a marshmallow eater. I'm just very undisciplined.

  • Reply Eric Outram October 2, 2019 at 12:09 am

    Sell a computer with a hard drive that’s 2/3full of operation data
    Then update it on line every year with more1/3data
    Walla it’s full
    Sorry you have to buy another hard drive and some iCloud space
    Dah is for dummy’s?

  • Reply Eric Outram October 2, 2019 at 12:11 am

    The dump kids
    Eat the marshmallows
    And go outside and get a real job
    And have all the marshmallows yo want
    Marshmallows test full of groock

  • Reply Eric Outram October 2, 2019 at 12:12 am

    Another speaker vomiting 🤮 out old bellies system in business for profits

  • Reply Eric Outram October 2, 2019 at 12:14 am

    Sorry no👍🏻up could watch it all the way thru
    Couldn’t finish listening to this vomiting 🤮 beliefs

  • Reply Eric Outram October 2, 2019 at 12:23 am

    Warren buffet used a factory of workers super fund for his own gain
    Thief of the workers who trusted in the system
    Halltherway brought coke share and McDonald’s Donald’s and other shares
    I don’t care how much buffet money machine makes
    Look at his customers health?salt sugar horemon injected meats and veggies 🌽 (Monsanto nitrogen ge etc
    Next step
    Make yo olwn marshmallows
    follow buffet and yo health
    marshmallows test ?
    and forgot the buffets and monkey 🐒 Monsanto ge foods

  • Reply Eric Outram October 2, 2019 at 12:24 am

    Rule one ☝️
    Get a bag of marshmallows ?

  • Reply Joanna Rusher October 2, 2019 at 7:00 pm

    The marshmallow test was debunked… please look it up. Refrain from using this invalidated research.

  • Reply blue bird October 3, 2019 at 3:14 pm

    What happens when successful senior partners in law firms boast that they're paying for their grandchild to go to the same elementary school as a Kennedy kid, so they can become besties in kindergarten? Bad for that Kennedy kid to grow up from preschool on with nothing but toadies surrounding him. Bad for society to have dynastic families wielding way more power than they deserve.

  • Reply Star Fire October 3, 2019 at 7:42 pm

    They seem like good criteria.

    They seem like good criteria?
    (worked for Warren Buffet)

    They seem like good criteria?

    You’d use these criteria? ..

    Congratulations!!

    If you’re still listening and paying attention you win the marshmallow test!! 🍬🍭🍡🎊🎉

  • Reply pushpanjali murmu October 4, 2019 at 7:49 am

    "How little power they have on their own nature" , the marshmallow test. Will power is an incredible thing.

  • Reply John Smith October 5, 2019 at 3:45 pm

    The Marshmellow Test has been debunked as more a correlation than a cause.e.g. children from poorer backgrounds would be more likely to be nervous about not getting food at home so would be more likely to grab food whenever it is available.

  • Reply John Smith October 5, 2019 at 3:47 pm

    If he has figured out how to do what WB does, why isn't he the second richest man in the world?

  • Reply Satsavya Mertens October 6, 2019 at 9:56 am

    Great sharing!!!!!!

  • Reply George Sebastian October 6, 2019 at 2:06 pm

    Wow

  • Reply visitor _t October 6, 2019 at 5:50 pm

    Truely heavyweight session

  • Reply Karan Patel October 7, 2019 at 7:24 pm

    Thank you

  • Reply Michael Gfroerer October 8, 2019 at 3:53 am

    ..painfully slow and over dramatic; honestly I don't think that billionaires like Warren Buffet make ideal role-models.

  • Reply shanky October 8, 2019 at 4:17 pm

    jb

  • Reply blah s October 9, 2019 at 4:00 am

    Sigh "don't let your mind jump forward/wander" literally impossible with adhd..

  • Reply Maria Lupi October 9, 2019 at 11:49 pm

    Thank you! You are truly a “gem”. I will be writing a card every day from this moment on. I have a son I want to be a role model.
    God bless you!

  • Reply GBiv78 October 11, 2019 at 2:21 pm

    I've got to say. Pretending a person can climb Everest without an overall plan is just wrong. You have to have both. Short term and long term view.

  • Reply Igor Groita October 12, 2019 at 2:13 pm

    This guy is bad at chess.

  • Reply WANNA GET LUCKY October 13, 2019 at 7:45 am

    THE MARSHMELLOW MAN . BTW SUGAR CAUSES CANCER AND IS BAD FOR U

  • Reply sean knot October 14, 2019 at 11:05 am

    1 minute turned into 23 minutes and 41 seconds damn you conor!

  • Reply The Redhead Cabaret October 14, 2019 at 3:03 pm

    I'm all for inspiring people, but sorry it needs to be said (unless it has been already much further down n the comments): The marshmallow study has been debunked, as it failed to be replicated by a much larger study that had a more accurate representation of the general population, and looked at elements such as the socioeconomic situation of the children involved. Sure, recounting the original study and the interpretation at the time of its findings is a great motivational story – but it's just not true. A quick Google can give you more information on this. Especially interesting is: Why are rich kids so good at the marshmallow test? But, hey, maybe he didn't know this back in 2013.

  • Reply Ms Writer October 15, 2019 at 11:40 am

    That's why God designed this world to challenges us, He is watching who is will not corrupt Heaven.

  • Reply DeadpoolAli October 16, 2019 at 12:51 am

    "A page a day you'll have a book in a year. "

    This!

  • Reply Doo Doo October 16, 2019 at 10:16 am

    damn I want marshmallows now smh

  • Reply shrey patel October 20, 2019 at 2:08 am

    Amazing ted talk

  • Reply Rainy Day Forge October 20, 2019 at 2:59 am

    Very well put together speech. Much appreciated the message. ❤️

  • Reply Tony Fleming October 20, 2019 at 2:33 pm

    Wow this should have 500 million views , has to be the BEST TED TALK I have seen and I have been watching TED for at least 10 yrs. THE BEST, and I’m gonna learn it and teach it !

  • Reply Nicholas Chong October 21, 2019 at 11:01 am

    Transporter is so tense

  • Reply Arjen Robben October 21, 2019 at 11:18 am

    Come to the point man. You talk to much

  • Reply paul mitchell October 21, 2019 at 1:57 pm

    Fiennes ended up losing chunks of his fingers to frostbite. Alpine climbers
    live to old age by reading the storm coming and abandoning the climb,going back to safety.
    Many climbers die on Everest while COMING DOWN after the summit.
    They misjudged that all important energy reserve.

  • Reply Wrestling Architect October 22, 2019 at 5:58 am

    This guy seems to love Warren Buffet. Does not seem to move on and tell us what he has to say. Now he is speaking about Marshmallow for 6 mins.And now about No.1 for another 6 mins.

  • Reply Wasteofmatter - October 22, 2019 at 9:29 am

    Thank you .

  • Reply Jacqui Foreman October 23, 2019 at 6:13 am

    Not your analogy…

  • Reply galaxy k October 27, 2019 at 9:21 pm

    Who disliked this?? One of the best Ted Talks I've watched

  • Reply MusicOfEpirus October 28, 2019 at 2:59 am

    Convoluted

  • Reply David Dean October 29, 2019 at 2:00 am

    At 7:58 when talking about dieting will power the camera switches to the audience and then pans down on their bodies. wtf?

  • Reply Jimmy Lewis October 30, 2019 at 4:55 am

    " a lot of good causes "

    Oh I'm gonna buy me a badass car and put it in a garage that's attached to a house on a cliffside overlooking the Pacific ocean, and then pile up a bunch of weed on my coffee table and then invite all my new friends over to party like rock stars and then dive into my eternity pool, and sink to the bottom and just think of where I was once.

  • Reply Jimmy Lewis October 30, 2019 at 5:03 am

    Maybe the kid doesn't like marshmallows
    Psychology only makes sense to psychologists
    Diversity can never be put in a box
    Nice try kid

  • Reply Scott Kress October 31, 2019 at 2:14 am

    This study called the marshmallow test was done in the 60s on a pool of 90 kids originally. Scientists at Stanford re-did the test recently on a pool of over 900 and made sure to include equal parts of socio-economic background and race and found that it wasn't the ability to delay gratification that lead to future success, but in fact socio-economic background. This remember, is not the maxim, but only the norm.

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